Hello everyone!
My name is Jaylene Cherie and I am a sexuality activist who is passionate about empowering others in their life of Intimacy, Sex, and BDSM!
i am happy to OFFER many SERVICES,such as SEX COaching, Dominatrix work, and more!
I channel this passion of mine through the creation of an empathetic, holistic, and safe space for others to flourish and embrace their sexuality, kinks, and/or sexual relationships with their partner(s).
My WHY:
Growing up in the Lower Mainland of B.C. as a cisgender bisexual femme, I personally experienced pressures, judgements, and trauma that contributed to my past oppression of my younger sexual self. I also felt shame, lots of it, towards the my consuming curiosity that arose in me about the world of sex and BDSM.
Through self work, education, and practices, unveiling myself into sexual empowerment was one of the most impactful things I did for my life. My healing changed me in a way where I feel a deep connection to my body, my pleasure, and my own desires without any holdbacks, without any shame. Even better, I could fully experience this intimacy I created for myself with others- something that we all are trying to experience with our authentic sexuality!
I want to hold a hand out to those are are attempting to do the same, those wanting some sort of healing and growth through the powerful embrace of their own lovable, erotic selves. I have dedicated myself to the purpose of opening up the world of sexuality to others and to helping them explore this key aspect of life and identity with confidence and fulfillment.
All I need from you, is that YOU know that you are ready (perhaps even impatient!) to take that "next step" into your empowered erotic self, then I will be here to help you get there.
As, it is a human RIGHT to be able to explore your sexuality, and you deserve to thrive in it!
I graduated from Rhodes Wellness College with two diplomas: Wellness Counselling and life coaching.
I have over 7 years experience facilitating workshops on self awareness, communication, and empowerment.
I’ve facilitated sexual safety and sexual empowerment workshops.
I was a published sex columnist for the magazine of positive living society (Read here).
Me + My Coaching Services
I find it an absolute privledge to be someone who is in a trusted position to experience all my client's stories, especially with a topic that is not talked about often in our society. My main motivation is always creating a place for expression, a place for awareness, and a place for acceptance with my client(s).
Using the four main components of sexuality*, I practice a client-centered approach, which gives the client(s) the opportunity to collaboratively create their own path of growth.
The different therapies in which I am knowledgeable in are:
- CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy)
- DBT (dialectical behaviour therapy)
- Narrative therapy
- Somatic therapy
Each client is unique- that is why I fully believe that each person deserves to have a custom designed coaching structure that aligns with them best!
*Sensuality, intimacy and relationships, gender/sexual identity, sexual health
(Source: Options for Sexual Health)
On my own studies, I have become fluent in:
Psychological and physiological aspects of sex and sexuality
Alternative sex/BDSM
Sexual oppression
Sexual safety
relationship styles
Sensual bodywork
Feminism
History of femme’s sexuality
Domme practices
Me + My Extra Services:
My extra offerings are ones that I take with just as much care and energy as I do with my Coaching. I always find myself as someone who is deeply invested in helping others find a space of connecting their selves with the expression of sexuality and BDSM/fetish.
Domme Experience:
Being well versed in the throes of the BDSM world for over 6 years now, I have developed an even deeper intuition to how to handle those who need to experience the art of letting go in a safe and well-mannered space. I am fluent in knowing the effort and reward submission takes and what it means to be a Domme of grace and integrity. I decide to to offer this to only those who are worthy of my time and training.